Week 35 - My Heart Still Loves You

If someone asked me, “What is one piece of advice you have to give that you believe would benefit anyone and everyone?”  My answer would be, “Whatever you have in your life that is working for you, MAINTAIN IT!”     

I have this belief, never believe you have mastered something because in my experience, that thought is enough to stop growth and worse, a release on being consciously connected to what I have loved enough to pursue in the first place.  I don’t know how to maintain something I am no longer pursuing with passion.  It just doesn’t work for me.  Granted, when it all starts to unravel, I might take notice and jump into action but by then it could be too late and often in moments when I notice the unraveling, there are new challenges and sometimes those challenges keep me from getting back to gains I once had.  There have been moments, when I thought, I had mastered marriage.  I could say, I have mastered not thinking that I have mastered marriage but instead, I will just accept the uncertainty and trust that we will continue to maintain, as that acceptance has brought me much happiness and I guess for me, happiness weighs out over certainty.  If there is one thing that I am certain of it is this, “My Heart Still Loves You” Dan <3